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DEIB for Parents' and Carers' Toolkit

DEIB for Parents' and Carers' Toolkit

Toolkit collated by Emma Sheppard and Krystian McInnis

Whether you are a parent, or an educator who is also a parent, supporting our own children to show up in the world confident in their own identity, and with compassion and understanding of the identities around them, is a hugely important task.

Children begin to notice differences as early as six months old, and this noticing prompts curiosity, reflections, questions and the formation of their own identity. However, this also forms the basis for receiving socially constructed negative stereotypes which can emerge as early as two and a half years old, and this stereotyping can impact the way they perceive themselves and others.

This is a toolkit to support you as parents in:
  • Empowering your children to understand and feel confident in their own identities
  • Introducing, and helping your children to learn about identities other than their own
  • Having important conversations around diversity, equality, inclusion and belonging with young children
  • Educating yourself about parenting in a way that models inclusion and belonging

This toolkit is a taster into the resources and opportunities available, not an exhaustive list. However, many of the tools featured will lead you on to further websites, podcasts, reading recommendations and helpful communities.

The Diverse Educators’ DEIB Parents' and Carers' Toolkit

We are collating a growing bank of resources to support you in reflecting on the following questions:
  • What are the key concepts around inclusion, equality, and belonging that I want my child to understand?
  • How do I educate myself about different identities, cultures, and experiences to model inclusivity?
  • How can I help my child feel proud and confident in their own identity?
  • What role do I play in shaping the way my child sees the world and their place in it?
  • How can I support my child if they experience exclusion or bullying due to their identity?
  • How can I introduce my child to the concept of intersectionality, where different aspects of a person’s identity can shape their experiences?
  • What are some age-appropriate ways I can help my child understand the importance of respecting all identities, including LGBTQIA+, race, disability, and gender?
  • How can I teach my child that interests, behaviours, and careers are not limited by gender stereotypes?
  • How can I help my child understand neurodiversity and why people think and process information differently?
  • How can I ensure my child feels comfortable asking questions about LGBTQIA+ identities without fear of judgement?

Articles

Ambitious about Autism

How to talk about autism

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Fawcett Society

Unlimited Potential – the Final Report of the Commission on Gender Stereotypes in Early Childhood

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The Guardian

Me and my neurodiverse family: ‘It’s chaotic, frenetic and hilarious’ – Ilona Banister

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The Guardian

‘He is thriving now; a different child’: the battle to educate neurodivergent pupils – John Harris

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LDRFA

Understanding Neurodivergence: A Guide for Parents

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Literary Hub

How Children’s Books Can Help Parents Talk About Race – Rachel Moss

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MENCAP

Support for children with special educational needs (SEN)

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Parents

Your Age by Age Guide to Talking About Race and Skin Colour With Your Child – Kara Corridan

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Rishu Srivastava

Raising Children in a Multicultural World: Strategies for Celebrating Diversity and Inclusion

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Teaching for Change, an American social justice organisation

A series of Anti-bias Education articles for parents

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Wellbeing

How we can unlearn unconscious bias for kinder parenting

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Blogs

Childmind

What Is Neurodiversity? And how can parents support kids who are neurodivergent?

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DfE

Sex education: What is RSHE and can parents access curriculum materials?

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Ditch the Label

A series of blogs sharing inspiring stories about disability

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Let Toys Be Toys blog

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Parenting Focus

Building Resilience: Top Tips

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ParentShop

Fostering Cultural Awareness and Inclusion in Your Children

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Read Brightly

A Question of Faith: Books and Resources to Help Us Talk to Our Kids About Religion and Spirituality – Olugbemisola Rhuday-Perkovich

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YoungMinds

Supporting a Young Person When they Come Out

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Books

Akala

Natives: Race and Class in the Ruins of Empire

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Grandin, Temple and Panek, Richard

The Autistic Brain: Helping Different Kinds of Minds Succeed

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Higashida, Naoki

The Reason I Jump

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Jacob, Jen and O’Reilly, Niamh

The Parent’s Guide to Down Syndrome

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Jantz, Gurian and McMurray

Raising Boys by Design: What the Bible and Brain Science Reveal About What Your Son Needs to Thrive

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Karst, Patrice

The Invisible String

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Kaufmann, Miranda

Black Tudors: The Untold Story

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Kendi, Ibram X.

Antiracist Baby

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Kuklin, Susan

Beyond Magenta: Transgender Teens Speak Out

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Nealy, Elijah C.

Trans Kids and Teens – Pride, Joy, and Families in Transition

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Olusoga, David

Black and British: A Forgotten History

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Ozonoff, Sally, Dawson, Geraldine and McPartland, James C.

A Parent’s Guide to High-Functioning Autism Spectrum Disorder, Second Edition: How to Meet the Challenges and Help Your Child Thrive

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Prizant, Barry M.

Uniquely Human: A Different Way of Seeing Autism

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Saad, Layla F.

Me and White Supremacy

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Siegel, Daniel J. and Payne Bryson, Tina

The Whole-Brain Child

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Wassell, Cathay

The Neurodivergent Experience: A Handbook for Parents

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Organisations

Anti-Bullying Alliance

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Black History Studies

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Black Minds Matter UK

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Education4Change

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Engage Parents to Influence School Policies

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INclude Education

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Kidscape

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Kooth

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MindOut

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Place2Be

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Race on the Agenda (ROTA)

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Podcasts

But Why? A Podcast for Curious Kids

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Parenting Beyond Discipline

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Some Families podcast

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The Diversity Gap Podcast

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The Inclusive Class Podcast

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What’s on Young Minds

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Resources

Black History for Children and Families

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Future Learn - Understanding Multilingual Children’s Language Development

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Kids in Museums Guide

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Letterbox Library

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LGBT Foundation

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MaistoryBookLibrary

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NSPCC - Talking to Children About Racism

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STEMETTES

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Support for Parents

Childline LGBTQ+ Support

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Contact: For families with disabled children

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IPSEA (Special Educational Needs Advice)

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Parentkind

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Report Racism (True Vision)

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Voice the Union

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Videos

Explaining Race #ComingTogether

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How to Talk to Kids About Race

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No More Girls and Boys - BBC Documentary

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TrueTube

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What Mental Health Is and Why It’s Important to Take Care of It

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Young people explain autism

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